Sunday, March 29, 2009

EXPECTATION...


One day someone met me in street and asked for some rupee for food…when I gave him ten rupees...he called two-three more persons for the same reason...I yelled on him for such behavior. After this incidence I came to my home and started thinking on whole episode happened with me….I tried to find out the reason behind it…Then I realized that we all do the same thing in our daily life...it is nothing but its expectations .Expectation a very small word of dictionary but contains whole truth of real world N life. Now question arise “HOW”…if we all see insight of our life, relationships, climate, environment, society, nation, universe…all are balanced coz of fulfillment of each expectation. We all expect something from someone to delegate some sought of desires. It is basically a system to expect from each other coz we are socially bounded and connected to each other. Nobody can walk a single step without expectation…but why sometimes people failed to understand the truth n facts. No matter how do we move and always try to take over each other …it is nothing but just an expectation to grab more. System is driving on the basis of such fundamentals but people try to deviate it …problem arises .Same when we expect more to other without knowing the temperament of someone…it deviate our thinking and leads dissatisfaction. Everything in this world has two aspects ….positive and negative .Expectation is very much positive when it is up to certain limits but beyond that it deteriorate .World is like a stage and we all are here to perform our specific role that assigned by the Divine. We all go by certain stages of life where we need to show our assigned role...Sometimes it may in form of mother/father, sometimes it’s in form of husband/ wife and so on. All need to perform desire act in the each role. But when it comes into our “I” factor problem arises. Then suddenly people lifted into “I” factor and say why should “I”…always me...why not you or some else??...People deteriorate the word Expectation and always try to blame others. Without complete our assigned chapter when we expect from others and he/she may fails to fulfill the desires of us …we astonished and easily relegate the other person without knowing the reasons or actual facts as such. We all living in the competitive era and trying to beat each other in each field .Due to this life became measurable and destroyed the peace. Ego takes place and defeat the real senses …so we all falling in our basic nature and erase the calm n satisfaction. In today’s time we all gone totally blind and even we do not hesitate to offer bribe to Super Soul (GOD) for our personal concern. We say that I can do everything n buy everything by any mean without knowing facts that we are continuosly oberserving by Omniscient…n always try to neglect the presence of God. So we expect a lot not only from others but from himself too. Here we are too much selfish and do each…even small task with zeal of expectation and expect the same from others but our building of hopes destroy when we couldn’t get so or the desire level. It persuade gaffe in mind of us and we start quibbling over pennies. Now we need to over come from this skepticism and imbibe prudence thinking. For this we need to decrease the level of expectation or try to do each deed without expecting anything that emerge the divine character inside us. One more habit we try to eliminate from us that is our dependent nature. In short…world is very small.. Life is too short to live...So enjoy the each moment …steer your future with high ignition of Good Karma & with least expectation... then only we can make the heaven here(on earth). So let's cheer up & Keep walking....like never before.